3/24/2024 0 Comments Kink checklist for master slave![]() You would not just put an ad in the newspaper saying “Car for sale. After all, it’s the same as if you wanted to sell something. So when you’re ready to post your ad keep in mind who your addressing it to & try to “sell yourself” as best as possible. In fact, I can almost guarantee that if the target of such a request is a female it will end up unreplied simply because there are more males than females looking for partners on sites like here. These type of ads generally end up with very little to no replies at all. Sure, it says in a thread title if you’re looking for either a Master, slave or switch but… is that all you look for? Would just any partner be fine with you? Most probably not… So in the end what happens is that short, undetailed personal ads gives the first impression that you’re either not very serious, uncreative or just desperate. And the problem with ads like in the examples above is: Why should another person reply? There is nothing in such requests that tells readers what you are really looking for. Now before even starting to type an ad keep those 2 words in mind: First impression! And in this case, the first impression you are sending to a potential partner is your words. “hi i am looking for a female slave email me at ” One of the most common mistakes I’ve noticed on getDare is new users registering then go straight to the s/m area to post something along those lines: Filling your profile is also not a bad idea when you want to get in contact with other users. Now you’re a registered member & are ready, willing & eager to find a partner… First thing: Don’t rush it! Take your time to lurk around & get acquainted with the site. After all, I’ve been into this for only a year & I’m sure that some of you must have some good additions to make to this threadĪlso I would kindly ask people not to post junk like this in my thread: That being said other members are very welcomed to post in here & share some of their own experiences & tips. I think that when it comes to making new contacts some basic “rules” applies no matter who you are or in which context you do so be it for a potential future D/s relationship, a “vanilla” one or even simply just meeting new friends. Note that even though I’m a slave & a female one involved in an online relationship myself this thread is intended for either submissives AND dominants, females AND males and I’m sure that at least some of the tips in this thread can be helpful to those seeking offline as much as online. I have posted & replied to personal ads, discussed in threads with other users, chatted with lots of different people… And now thought of posting some tips & ideas coming from my past searching experiences & conversations I’ve had. As the title suggest, this thread is intended for those who are new into this lifestyle or at searching for partners online although this thread can (hopefully!) be helpful to the not-so-new as well.įor the past year I have been a regular member on getDare & then since last April on here as well.
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